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- catalog contributor b5889033.
- catalog created "1994.".
- catalog date "1994".
- catalog date "1994.".
- catalog dateCopyrighted "1994.".
- catalog description "1.Meeting your own self; not just identity; cherishing an inner reality; a sense of permanence in your life; separate selves relating; remembering who you are. -- 2. Locating your solid ground; life with mother; a disappearing body, a disappearing self; replaying the past. -- 3. The beginnings of self; having someone in their absence; psychosexual development; symbiosis: fact or illusion?; loss of self or no self at all; celebrating the golden age; knowing what others are feeling. -- 4. Reclaiming your power; the power of self-encouragement; leaving your self behind.".
- catalog description "14. Knowing the other; out with the toad, in with the prince. -- 15. Intimacy -- an experience of transcendence?; alive in your body; good at intimacy; what intimacy might be. -- 16. Listening is essential to intimacy -- 17. Not only a self, but also an other; the dangers of intimacy; succeeding at intimacy. -- 18. Discovering the other; my version -- the true version; sucking someone in. -- 19. When intimacy has a chance; no intimacy without isolation; one self accommodating the other; boundaries are good for intimacy. -- 20. Unconscious limitations on intimacy; understanding our motives; re-making the past in the present; overloading intimate relationships.".
- catalog description "21. Wanting intimacy, wanting solitude; falling in love -- again; less sex, more desire; sexual contact: the ultimate revelation?. -- 22. Desiring who, desiring what?; reaching into inner space; the acceptable face of desire; wanting you all to myself; a positive use of conflict. -- 23. Not just wanting -- 24. Questions of attunement; regulating desire; negotiating desire; rage, envy, destruction; mourning what you cannot have. -- 25. Bringing intimacy to solitude; straight? Gay? Should it matter?; feeling understood; closeness and space. -- 26: Cupid's arrows.".
- catalog description "5. A girl of a boy? -- 6. Landed with your gender; expressing your gender; 'countersexist' childbearing; restricting destructive feelings; conditions for change. -- 7. The first eighteen months; separating from mother, connecting with father; learning what gender means; mothers and daughters; mothers and sons; fathers and sons. -- 8. Patterns of childhood in man; women as caretakers; clinging mothers, disappointing sons; changing tactics; woman as 'safe place'; women and men: a doomed alliance?; women envying men; meeting each other's needs. -- 9. Reviewing the myth of mother; coming out human.".
- catalog description "I 10. What solitude is; seeking distraction -- 11: Solitude or loneliness?; not taking mother in; feeling 'at one' with yourself; needing solitude; not solitude but the absence of intimacy; tangling thought with feeling; fear of death; the everyday fear of loneliness; caring for yourself. -- 12: Locked into yourself; aspects of yourself; alone -- and safe; choosing solitude. -- 13: Knowing less, learning more.".
- catalog description "Includes bibliographical references (pages 309-320).".
- catalog extent "p. cm.".
- catalog identifier "0393036278".
- catalog issued "1994".
- catalog issued "1994.".
- catalog language "eng".
- catalog publisher "New York : Norton,".
- catalog subject "158/.2 20".
- catalog subject "BF575.I5 D68 1994".
- catalog subject "Intimacy (Psychology)".
- catalog subject "Solitude.".
- catalog tableOfContents "1.Meeting your own self; not just identity; cherishing an inner reality; a sense of permanence in your life; separate selves relating; remembering who you are. -- 2. Locating your solid ground; life with mother; a disappearing body, a disappearing self; replaying the past. -- 3. The beginnings of self; having someone in their absence; psychosexual development; symbiosis: fact or illusion?; loss of self or no self at all; celebrating the golden age; knowing what others are feeling. -- 4. Reclaiming your power; the power of self-encouragement; leaving your self behind.".
- catalog tableOfContents "14. Knowing the other; out with the toad, in with the prince. -- 15. Intimacy -- an experience of transcendence?; alive in your body; good at intimacy; what intimacy might be. -- 16. Listening is essential to intimacy -- 17. Not only a self, but also an other; the dangers of intimacy; succeeding at intimacy. -- 18. Discovering the other; my version -- the true version; sucking someone in. -- 19. When intimacy has a chance; no intimacy without isolation; one self accommodating the other; boundaries are good for intimacy. -- 20. Unconscious limitations on intimacy; understanding our motives; re-making the past in the present; overloading intimate relationships.".
- catalog tableOfContents "21. Wanting intimacy, wanting solitude; falling in love -- again; less sex, more desire; sexual contact: the ultimate revelation?. -- 22. Desiring who, desiring what?; reaching into inner space; the acceptable face of desire; wanting you all to myself; a positive use of conflict. -- 23. Not just wanting -- 24. Questions of attunement; regulating desire; negotiating desire; rage, envy, destruction; mourning what you cannot have. -- 25. Bringing intimacy to solitude; straight? Gay? Should it matter?; feeling understood; closeness and space. -- 26: Cupid's arrows.".
- catalog tableOfContents "5. A girl of a boy? -- 6. Landed with your gender; expressing your gender; 'countersexist' childbearing; restricting destructive feelings; conditions for change. -- 7. The first eighteen months; separating from mother, connecting with father; learning what gender means; mothers and daughters; mothers and sons; fathers and sons. -- 8. Patterns of childhood in man; women as caretakers; clinging mothers, disappointing sons; changing tactics; woman as 'safe place'; women and men: a doomed alliance?; women envying men; meeting each other's needs. -- 9. Reviewing the myth of mother; coming out human.".
- catalog tableOfContents "I 10. What solitude is; seeking distraction -- 11: Solitude or loneliness?; not taking mother in; feeling 'at one' with yourself; needing solitude; not solitude but the absence of intimacy; tangling thought with feeling; fear of death; the everyday fear of loneliness; caring for yourself. -- 12: Locked into yourself; aspects of yourself; alone -- and safe; choosing solitude. -- 13: Knowing less, learning more.".
- catalog title "Intimacy and solitude / Stephanie Dowrick.".
- catalog type "text".