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- catalog abstract "How do we raise our boys to be men? And what do they lose in the process? Can a boy be contaminated by his mother's "femininity"? Has she failed if he isn't macho? Will he be a sissy if she doesn't let go? In The Courage to Raise Good Men, Olga Silverstein, a family therapist, and Beth Rashbaum issue a challenge to the cultural conventions governing mothers and sons. This provocative book shows how all aspects of the culture we live in, from myths to movies, Sigmund Freud to Robert Bly, work together to persuade us that only a father can make a boy a man. Even as we review our roles today, we perpetuate this gender split - boys must achieve, girls must relate - leaving men with mixed messages and mothers guiltily afraid to communicate their love. Drawing on case histories from her clinical practice and her own life, Silverstein shows that results are "lost boys, lonely men, lousy marriages, midlife crises," and sons who need wilderness weekends to open their hearts. Silverstein questions the need for traditional male role models. And she calls for mothers and fathers alike to refuse to sanction the emotional shutdown we traditionally demand of boys, thus enabling their sons to grow up to be not only strong men but whole people. Lively and iconoclastic, The Courage to Raise Good Men delivers an empowering message to mothers. Providing an essential blueprint for changing the way we think about male and female roles, Silverstein and Rashbaum suggest that transforming the mother-son relationship is the key to ending the division - and the war - between the sexes. Like Susan Faludi's Backlash, Deborah Tannen's You Just Don't Understand, and Gloria Steinem's Revolution from Within, this book will be a milestone in the gender debate.".
- catalog contributor b5906628.
- catalog contributor b5906629.
- catalog created "c1994.".
- catalog date "1994".
- catalog date "c1994.".
- catalog dateCopyrighted "c1994.".
- catalog description "1. Cautionary Tales: For Mothers of Sons Ages One to Six -- 2. Hero Tales: For Boys Ages Six to Twelve -- 3. The Myth of the Male Role Model, and Other Tales for Changing Times -- 4. The Adolescent Years: Establishing -- and Enforcing -- Masculinity -- 5. Leaving Home: The Young Man's Rite of Passage -- 6. Men in Relationships -- 7. What Do Women Want? What Do Men Need?".
- catalog description "Even as we review our roles today, we perpetuate this gender split - boys must achieve, girls must relate - leaving men with mixed messages and mothers guiltily afraid to communicate their love. Drawing on case histories from her clinical practice and her own life, Silverstein shows that results are "lost boys, lonely men, lousy marriages, midlife crises," and sons who need wilderness weekends to open their hearts.".
- catalog description "How do we raise our boys to be men? And what do they lose in the process? Can a boy be contaminated by his mother's "femininity"? Has she failed if he isn't macho? Will he be a sissy if she doesn't let go?".
- catalog description "In The Courage to Raise Good Men, Olga Silverstein, a family therapist, and Beth Rashbaum issue a challenge to the cultural conventions governing mothers and sons. This provocative book shows how all aspects of the culture we live in, from myths to movies, Sigmund Freud to Robert Bly, work together to persuade us that only a father can make a boy a man.".
- catalog description "Includes bibliographical references (p.245-268) and index.".
- catalog description "Lively and iconoclastic, The Courage to Raise Good Men delivers an empowering message to mothers. Providing an essential blueprint for changing the way we think about male and female roles, Silverstein and Rashbaum suggest that transforming the mother-son relationship is the key to ending the division - and the war - between the sexes. Like Susan Faludi's Backlash, Deborah Tannen's You Just Don't Understand, and Gloria Steinem's Revolution from Within, this book will be a milestone in the gender debate.".
- catalog description "Silverstein questions the need for traditional male role models. And she calls for mothers and fathers alike to refuse to sanction the emotional shutdown we traditionally demand of boys, thus enabling their sons to grow up to be not only strong men but whole people.".
- catalog extent "viii, 275 p.;".
- catalog hasFormat "Courage to raise good men.".
- catalog isFormatOf "Courage to raise good men.".
- catalog issued "1994".
- catalog issued "c1994.".
- catalog language "eng".
- catalog publisher "New York, N.Y., USA : Viking Press,".
- catalog relation "Courage to raise good men.".
- catalog subject "155.43/2 20".
- catalog subject "BF692.5 .S55 1994".
- catalog subject "Boys Psychology.".
- catalog subject "Child rearing.".
- catalog subject "Masculinity.".
- catalog subject "Men Psychology.".
- catalog subject "Mothers and sons.".
- catalog tableOfContents "1. Cautionary Tales: For Mothers of Sons Ages One to Six -- 2. Hero Tales: For Boys Ages Six to Twelve -- 3. The Myth of the Male Role Model, and Other Tales for Changing Times -- 4. The Adolescent Years: Establishing -- and Enforcing -- Masculinity -- 5. Leaving Home: The Young Man's Rite of Passage -- 6. Men in Relationships -- 7. What Do Women Want? What Do Men Need?".
- catalog title "The courage to raise good men/ Olga Silverstein and Beth Rashbaum.".
- catalog type "text".